.But what Astrid doesn't understand but is actually a truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses 2 children-- may vouch for: The simple fact that your partnership along with your parents modifications and grows as you each grow older, and ideally for the better. "Your planet centers around [your children] when they are actually children [as well as] it's so much work yet attractive," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you really miss that, considering that then you can not acquire all of them to accomplish just about anything you prefer all of them to accomplish, given that they begin establishing their own thoughts, their own viewpoints." And at some point, you find yourself in the location O'Hara, whose kids reside in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, able to profit from her little ones. "They are actually simply such awesome younger individuals," she points out. "I'm certainly not their friend, yet I enjoy having discussions along with all of them as well as being familiar with just how they consider life.".